从财政大权的分歧引发的夫妻不和谐(转载)

　　从财政大权的分歧引发的夫妻不和谐
　　婚姻的和谐美满考验着新婚夫妇在这场婚姻中的互相包容性，北京翻译公司里已婚的人士也不少，处理事情多注意对方的感受。婚后的生活不再像婚前恋爱时那样，会有居多的实际问题生活问题待两个人一起解决，处理不好变回吵架伤感情，夫妻之间的财政大权是一个比较容易发起冲突的话题。
　　How much pocket money men, depending on the marriage home who control the purse strings. Beijing translation company men every month there will be some "pocket money." Nvwang recent posting said, her husband was a general staff, sooner or later eat at home, eat at noon in the unit, there is little entertainment on weekdays, who with only 20 yuan emergency. In June this year, there is one thing his wife monopolize the economy triggered by Guinness divorce, this 80-year-old uncle Chen, his wife 75-year-old grandmother how, in order to have money to spend, eighty-year-old grandfather clamor for a divorce, what not to detain his grandmother payroll cards and even ID cards, health insurance cards are confiscated, the financial power monopoly at home. Eventually, the old couple to $ 300 per week and a good agreement.
　　男士们零花钱的多少，取决于婚后家中的财政大权谁来管。北京翻译公司的男士们每个月都会有一定的"零花钱"。最近一女网友发帖称，丈夫是一名普通职员，早晚在家吃饭，中午在单位吃，平日很少有应酬，身上只带20元应急。今年六月，有一件妻子独揽经济大全的事情引发的离婚案，陈大爷今年80岁,老伴何奶奶75岁，为了有钱花，八十岁老大爷闹着要离婚，何奶奶不仅扣留他的工资卡,甚至身份证、医保卡都没收了,在家里独揽财政大权。最终,老两口以每周300元的约定和好。
　　
　　Urban families in 75.3% by the wife, to participate in the management of income couples, among them, 33.6%families are wife arrogate financial power, commonmanagement or grasp at authority by oneself, or, let his wife will be in charge of the money, at home in the "she" is a good choice. The play a woman, be very careful in reckoning strengths; second, make domestic womengrasp of family income and expenditure plan, more more,but the wife money also have a degree, to pay a certain space, also be good for his interpersonal communication.
　　都市家庭中，75.3%由妻子参与管理夫妻收入，其中，33.6%的家庭是妻子独揽财政大权，共同管理也好，独揽大权也好，让老婆大人负责管钱，于家于"她"都是不错的选择。其一，发挥了女人精打细算的长处；其二，让持家的女人们对家庭收支更有计划、更有把握，但妻子管钱也要有个度，给偿付一定的空间，对他的人际交往也有好处。
　　
　　Couples living together in the long-term, it will inevitably be some contradictions and conflicts,Chaoyangtranslation company these married employees, between husband and wife have had a dispute, but in the quarrelto take the matter on its merits, must not hit, hurt feelings.Family finance one director, major items of expenditure to discuss with each other, stand on one's own smallexpenses, neither are withheld, but not limited to each other, make both ends meet, overall planning, reasonable arrangement, this can avoid the family conflicts caused by money.
　　夫妻在长期的共同生活中，难免会发生一些矛盾和冲突，朝阳翻译公司这些已婚员工，夫妻之间都有过争执，但在发生争吵时要就事论事，绝不要动手打人，伤害感情。家庭财政一人主管，大项开支互相商量，小项开支独立自主，既不互相隐暪，又不互相限制，量入为出，统筹兼顾，合理安排，这样就可以避免由钱导致的家庭矛盾。
　　夫妻感情的和谐要的是双方共同维护，北京翻译公司的老教授和老伴结婚近四十载。在采取一个决定的时候不妨问问对方的意见，站在对方的角度考虑一下问题再做决定，社会上普遍压力较大，双方在家务和孩子教育上互相分担解忧，爆出良好夫妻关系，祝愿天下的新婚夫妇携手走向金婚。
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